How to become homeless
NYT: Ex-homeowners forced into shelters – [The New York Times]
NYT: Ex-homeowners forced into shelters ‘These families never needed help before,’ says one advocate
CLEVELAND – The first night after she surrendered her house to foreclosure, Sheri West endured the darkness in her Hyundai sedan. She parked in her old driveway, with her flower-print dresses and hats piled in boxes on the back seat, and three cherished houseplants on the floor. She used her backyard as a restroom.
The second night, she stayed with a friend, and so it continued for more than a year: Ms. West — mother of three grown children, grandmother to six and great-grandmother to one — passed months on the couches of friends and relatives, and in the front seat of her car.
But this fall, she exhausted all options. She had once owned and overseen a group home for homeless people. Now, she succumbed to that status herself, checking in to a shelter.
“No one could have told me that in a million years: I’d wake up in a homeless shelter,” she said. “I had a house for homeless people. Now, I’m homeless.”
Growing numbers of Americans who have lost houses to foreclosure are landing in homeless shelters, according to social service groups and a recent report by a coalition of housing advocates.
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(se: It’s really sad to see this, especially for people with kids. So I do feel sorry for them, but this one was something you had to see coming. I used to flip through the TV channels looking for something to watch, and there had to be a dozen TV shows about houses, where people were buying homes and flipping them, or buying expensive homes they couldn’t afford.
I just saw one the other day where this young couple was looking to move out their apartment, and wanted a $700,000 house in a prestige location, and nothing else. I’m sure it was an old episode, and you can probably find them in the shelter now. The problem was that it was very easy to get a nice big expensive house for next to nothing, with small mortgage payments. Then it gets better, people would refinance their houses, and get lines of credit against their house so that they can match their great new house with great new cars and luxuries.

I fucked up my life. You guys should feel sorry for me.
So you make $60,000 a year between you and your wife, you just bought a $500,000 house, and then you get a credit line against your house so you can buy a Cadillac Escalade to do groceries in, a BMW M3 for a daily driver, and a nice convertible for the wife. Life is grand isn’t it? Then all of a sudden interest rates go up, mortgage rates go up, gas prices go up, you get laid off, and there goes the self esteem and ego you were buying with someone else’s money.
You get rid of the cars to pay the bills, you have no choice but to keep the SUV, because it’s now worth nothing as no one wants a gas guzzler when they can’t afford it. Then as things get tight, you trade it in for a Ford Taurus and some cash, taking a loss so that you can eat. You lose your house and live in the Taurus, and then end up in the shelter.
Could this have been avoided? Sure. But who can resist living life like a TV Star? By day you’re a telemarketer, or an employee at The Gap, but after work, you’re a d-list celebrity, waiting for MTV to give you a show, and TMZ to camp outside your house. Too bad that reality eventually kicks in. Better luck next time. Unfortunately, most of these people never learn.)

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